How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 10:18
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
How is a narcissist likely to handle situations when confronted with hard truths about themselves?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Why am I so afraid that gun owners have set traps to kill me outside my house or my car?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Does not procrastinate.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
What is it like to be the slave in a mistress-slave relationship?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Making more friends is a goal.
What is the most heartbreaking or sad love story that you ever had (experienced)?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Why do some films seem to date/age so badly?
That's it for today.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Ask yourself:
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What do you think, TikTok is nothing but another porn site? Do you agree or not? Why?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
If Jesus was crucified by Governor Pontius Pilate, why does the Quran deny his death?
What I need from you?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Would you respect the US with a woman as president?
Procrastinates a lot.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Why can't white people just surrender their white privilege?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Do empaths fall easier for abusive people?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Do not set goals—set systems.